Begin Again
Monday, December 29th, 2008If only the challenges, issues and situations we face daily were changed as easily as our calendars and the writing of a new digit at the beginning of the new year. They are not.
The idea of a new year is so psychologically and emotionally important, we’d need to invent something like it if we didn’t have a fresh start to keep our lives sane and manageable. A year gives us the opportunity to see things come full circle. There is the time to plant and the time to harvest. We have moments of clarity and purpose and times of discouragement. We have times when we achieve great success as well as moments when we search for the answers.
Look in your mind and heart toward your future. If you have a great gust of wind pushing you forward, then keep your sails trimmed so that you continue to move in that direction. If not, begin again. Renew your spirit and mind. Make tough decisions about your closet, your acquaintances, and your business.
Take the time to review, rethink, evaluate, and plan. Gather the information you need, then turn off the endless drone of the news cycle. Resolve to be more fit and healthy than you are now. Keep acting on it. Connect with your spiritual side. Love all your family and friends and make sure they know it. Give up draining behaviors like complaining, one-upmanship, self-pity and blame. Speak words of hope, optimism and compassion.
Should you fall short of these goals, forgive yourself and embrace your noble and best self. Do these things specifically for you, no matter what anyone else ever says or does. Don’t worry that they aren’t changing. This is not your job. Once you’ve fully embraced these ideas, begin again.
Use the advent of a new calendar and the act of writing a new digit on the end of the year serve as reminders that you must be the agent of change, success and prosperity that you seek.
Questions: How do I want 2009 to be different than last year? What steps can I take to ensure that?
– Dean L.





